What to Do If You’re a Woman Facing Arrest

Being arrested can be a terrifying experience, especially for women who may have additional concerns about their safety, health, and rights. If you ever find yourself in this situation, knowing what to do can help protect you and give you a sense of control during a stressful time.

Stay Calm and Composed

The first and most important thing is to stay calm. Even if you believe the arrest is unfair, arguing or resisting can make things worse. Keep your hands where officers can see them, speak respectfully, and avoid sudden movements. Your goal at this stage is to stay safe and avoid escalating the situation.

Understand Your Basic Rights

You have rights, and it’s important to use them:

  • You have the right to remain silent. You are not required to answer questions beyond identifying yourself.

  • You have the right to ask for a lawyer. If you cannot afford one, the court must provide one for you.

  • You have the right to refuse a search if officers do not have a warrant.

Clearly and calmly state, “I am exercising my right to remain silent” and “I would like to speak to an attorney.” Then stop talking until your lawyer is present.

Protect Your Belongings

During an arrest, your personal items will usually be taken and held by the authorities. If you have time before being handcuffed, try to secure valuables, turn off your phone, and inform someone you trust. Keep a mental note of what you have with you.

If You Feel Your Rights Are Violated

If you are mistreated, harassed, or denied medical care, do your best to stay safe first. Later, document everything you can remember: officers’ names, badge numbers, the location, time, and details of what happened. This information can be crucial for your legal defense or to file a complaint later.

Stay Strong and Remember This

An arrest is not a conviction. Being arrested doesn’t mean you’re guilty, and it doesn’t define who you are. Stay focused on protecting yourself, following the legal process, and seeking help from professionals who can stand by your side.

Request a Female Officer if Needed

If you are uncomfortable with male officers during a search or pat-down, you can ask for a female officer to conduct it. While it may not always be possible immediately, many departments will try to honor this request when they can.

Communicate Medical or Special Needs

If you are pregnant, have a medical condition, need medication, or have any specific needs, tell the officers right away. They are required to make sure you receive appropriate medical attention while in custody.

Contact Someone You Trust

Once you are allowed to make a phone call, use it wisely. Call someone you trust — a family member, friend, or lawyer. Let them know where you are, what happened, and what you might need. Keep the call short and factual, as it may be monitored.